Is your new kitty a Nervous Nellie? Here are some steps you can take to help civilize them in their first few years, before they make you twitchy, too.
Your brand-new kitten, like any junior creature, is going to be full of energy and somewhat chaotic. Setting a routine, making sure they have toys to burn up that energy (or another kitten to be a partner in crime), and teaching them the rules of the household for the first couple of months.
During the middle months of the first year, keep thinking ahead to what your kitty needs to know to be successful in your home. Provide scratching posts and encourage use of them versus the rest of your furniture. Are there noises that occur on a regular basis, like dishwasher, blender, the infamous vacuum cleaner? Get them used to these sounds.
If your cat needs longer walks than they get indoors, this is when you can train them to walk with a harness outdoors. You can also familiarize them with the cat carrier, so they’ll be ready for vet visits and other trips.
As your kitty gets to a year old, which is equivalent to a 14–15-year-old human age, they should be answering to their name, be used to a mealtime routine, and learning to play with others. Social interaction with other animals and humans can be enriching and help them build self-assurance.
Young adulthood, through three years old, is a time to reinforce these learned behaviors, but to mix up their toys and experiences, to keep them challenged. They are smart creatures, and need to be have their horizons broadened regularly. Play together to build your bond.
As they grow up, they will also need to create safe places where they can retreat and be comfortable, particularly if there are multiple animals in the home. This will encourage their independence and confidence.
When properly socialized, your kitty will be a comfortable, joyful source of love and companionship for the years ahead.