Caring for a pet such as a cat can positively influence a child’s development. “Children raised with pets often demonstrate well-balanced
emotional health benefits such as greater empathy, cognitive development and greater social participation” according to the Cummings School of Veterinary Medicine at Tufts University.
The important point to remember is that cats have a variety of personalities. A cat with the right temperament, one that is friendly and
gentle, will help make these two groups into future best friends.
Most advice says that children under three and nervous cats in general aren’t great candidates to mix with each other. Skittish kitties need
less stress, and anyone who’s lived with a toddler knows stress is the name of the game. Kids this age also might not understand that a cute little kitten isn’t a stuffy to be hauled around and played with.
You can set the meeting of cat and child up for success by preparing beforehand: teach the children about gentle handling. Explain that pulling
tails or fur, loud noises, and sudden movements can scare or hurt the cat. Introduce the idea of giving the cat personal space when needed.
Also, if the cat isn’t used to children, introduce new sounds and activities gradually. Play recordings of children’s laughter and create a child-friendly space for the cat to retreat to.
Ensure the cat’s health is checked, especially for issues like long claws, to prevent accidental scratches. When introducing them, ensure an adult supervises. Allow the cat to approach at its own pace. Use toys (e.g., feather wands) to encourage playful yet safe interactions. Create bonding moments, like building simple cat toys together or playing interactive games that are safe for both the child and the cat.
Most children these days have been instructed on personal boundaries—they can learn to treat new pets the same way. Teach children to recognize when a cat is stressed—hissing, growling, or hiding are signs it needs a break. Also, provide a quiet, high-up spot or room the cat can
escape to if needed.
You can begin the introduction process by participating in the adoption together. See how the individual cats and the children interact. You
will have the chance to ask many questions, such as whether the cat is
social, or has lived with children before. This might be when adopting a senior cat could be a great help!
The shelter staff can also help ask questions to match a potential new family member with you, which can avoid having to return a cat who might be a bad fit. There’s no need to hurry when making this match—everyone wants this to be a successful forever family!